For a lady to marry she must first be ready for marriage,because the
major problem that sets in is that ladies do not position themselves for
marriage but they say they want to marry.
Marriage should be
prepared for, it should not be jumped into because a greater percentage
of people married are either divorced or trying to be divorced,due to
lack of preparation.
Every lady should try to research about marriage and how to position themselves for it.
Secondly
ladies that have achieved in their career tend to look up high for
another made man,they find it difficult to come down to a level,
forgetting that a man will always be the head of the family,they have to
realize that there are Home's today that are been financed by women
these days and these married women are happy about it,because they know
that in marriage husband and wife's are one, looking up the ladder will
do you no good because a man that is up the ladder will need a woman
that will need his money,not the one that is already made.
Thirdly
ladies find it difficult to submit,you don't only submit to a husband
but also to your male friends,avoid heading discussions,pretend not to
know too much.But ladies these days that are very intelligent will want
to boss it on ,which one of your friends will like to be put down by
the idea that you know too much.Your knowledge should complement and
not to distract.
I also discovered that ladies love lies so they
tend to be attracted to lies when they are told the truth they cannot
carry this information and immediately they will flare up.And a man
that lie to you will leave you.
Some ladies do not want to
struggle they want a man that has a car, house and a Job, forgetting
that Vision is more important than money.
Some others may be due to spiritual problem not tackled early.
My advice is that every lady should be smart and read books on relationship and marriage for enlightenment.
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